Yuck...

As I am having series xam tomorrow,none is online , I am damn bored and have got nothing else to do,I decided to do this tag I got from meenu. I just have to describe 10 things I hate, which is better than the last tag. So my ‘yuck’ list goes like this..
1.First of all I too hate those bad things that everyone else hates, like the antisocial elements and stuff…I am not going into details..rather write what probably me alone hates.
2.I hate Mandira Bedi’s commentary( u don’t ?…watch the session of that xtra innings regarding the duckworth lewis rule and u’ll join Mandira hate club)
3.I hate any dish made of prawn(even the thought makes me go yucccckkkkk..)
4.I hate kareena’s acting( go watch ‘khushi’ and u will know it)
5.I hate to see sourav jobless these days( enufffffff…u shudnt swear at a gal like that). But once I was a big fan of that guy and even though things change ,sometimes the fossils remain.
6.Hmmmm(not as easy as I thought..10 is a big no. )…I don’t like jassi gift’s music ..well..4 the people was ok..but the rest sucks...and i cant stand hard metal.
7.I hate civil and electronics(but the best part is that I don’t have to study the former anymore and hope the same for the latter)
8.I hate it when I get possessive( coz I cant reveal that to anyone as I myself don’t wanna be possessive and that suffocates me)
9.I hate ostentatious people and the really snoopy ones who are like the gossip column in the newspapers (1 more to go..)
10.I hate it when guys swear for no reason( just don’t think its cooool…)
Now I tag anand (seems like his blog will conatin only tags), arun and deniminoo(can see my name at the top of their list..sighhh)

U must die in one life, before u can enter another

Changes…I hated them…to be precise still hate them. I felt sick whenever I had to join a new college or a new skool ,meeting strangers wasn’t my idea of a perfect pastime. To tell u the truth ,that is a part which scares me when I think about marriage too. The thought of uprooting scares me. Going to a complete different environment…mannnn,this is one time I envy boys..sighhhh. But I guess its just the matter of starting trouble, once I am comfortable with someone,I take every measure to maintain the smooth relation . But lately,I have noticed that some changes aren’t that bad either…some which u don’t notice at first. Let me make it more clear.
flashback…
4 years ago…a classroom in school…in this corner,last bench last one ,there she sits a meek,hesitant,inhibitive girl,aloof from others.She is so quiet…none talks to her much..neither does she…she actually wanna…but cant make herself do it. Going and asking someone ‘can I sit with u’ seems like a herculian task before her.. she feels that others wouldn’t want her around, that she is intruding their privacy…so she lives as a shelled animal(if u still dont get it, dumboo.. its ‘me’).
Now..
Classroom in college…still the last bench last one,there I am…trying to write ‘kick me’ on my front bencher friend’s back…
This is the change I mentioned…I am not claiming that I am a popular or smarrrt gal in the college, but this is a real change for me…maybe none else will understand or notice it xcept me.. I had friends from skool who were just classmates when we were in skool and later we grew closer and I had to answer many queries like..’which class were u in wen we were in skool?’(I sat behind u ..@&%$@) and ‘hey, u shud ve come for the tour in 10th..it wudve been fun..really missed u’( I too came for the tour my pal, u really ‘missed’ me…sighhh). In the college too, I was no better in the first year..had only 3 or 4 friends . But now I maintain a healthy relation with a very good ratio of the class. I don’t remember exactly when the changes started..but if u consider it day by day nothing seems to change. I remember that I started talking to the boys in the class at the beginning of the second year(courtesy: YAHOO MESSENGER). Now I have a ring of friends and I am extremely proud and happy that I share a pleasant bond with them. Each of them is special to me in their own ways.Soo changes is what I was talking about…and I will be facing an uprooting sooon ( no yaar…its not wht u r thinking, I am only 19 for heavens sake). I will be shifting home.. spend my last 14 years here..so kinda have the emotional attachment:(, but now I have learnt not to keep a prejudiced approach about anything..maybe its all for the best. So now me too started agreeing …changes maynot be as bad as u think they are.. but it’s the way u welcome them that matters.

How dumb r u???

It was this friend of mine who asked me to stop using a diary and blog my daily things… But I thought I would have to copy paste each day the same things..it wudve been smething like...
while(j!=s8)
{
woke up at -- ;
went to skool..oops college( wud rather not insult skool);
slept, daydreamed, did( copied ) the ‘hme’wrk of every hr
in the preceeding hr,tried diffr hairdo’s on the front benchers ;
back to home;
infrnt of d pc;
sleep;
}
(having c lab xams day aftr 2moro…the aftereffects of studying so hard may reflect on even my blogs..:D)
so I dropped the idea of writing about me there.. it was just this Sunday that smething different happened in my life…I always had the feeling…but never knew tht upto what extend it is true…this friend of mine…talked to me till late in the night…and hours later I realized tht my feelings were nothing but mere truth…that I am the dumbest creature Almighty has ever created!!!
I am gonna describe to u how can u get ur id skrewed in 5 min…
The following is a part of the conversation that happened between me and my friend….

My pal: ur bday on ---- - rite??
Me : yaa….y? ( shudve smelt smething there itself…as he just hit a quarter
century in asking my bday)
My pal: simply
Me : gifts r always welcome
My pal: ya ya…jst keep waitin
My pal: and send me ur zip code…. so i can send gifts
Me : ------ ( my senses completely clouded by d sight of dis gift waiting 4 me –dumb instance 1)
My pal: u knw wat
My pal: i hav always been fascinated by batman
My pal: last day i drew da bat logo on da table
My pal: and devi came and asked me if it was pahntom's
My pal: my hero…she killed him (ohh god ..he’s really gud at this..i had no idea wht he's upto)
My pal: u must've been harry potter fan frm child hood
Me : no...d 1st book released only wen i was in 9 th or so
My pal: so who was bfor dat….shaktiman?
Me : archies….but hes a big flirt.
My pal: betty??
Me : yaa..i like betty….similar to me
My pal: so betty ur childhood hero? ( here at this point I did wonder y he is hellbent on knwing my childhood hero…even I din hav a perfect idea who it was.. and how the hell does betty fit in as a childhood hero)
Me : naaaa…..i liked ------ quite ( don wanna publish it in the net…the answer is already famous by now…sighhhh)
and at this point my friend suddenly gets sleepy and he goes to sleep promising me a cute surprise next day…and I too hit the covers dreaming about the ‘pleasant’ surprise I am going to get .
The next day evening I try to get online as usual and get sign in problems…and it hit me…every piece of the riddle fell into its place…he just had to click the ‘4got passwrd’..I was angry or sad at myself or him..anyway will describe the behind the scenes play later sometime as I am not too sure about the responses.. it was that I dint remember my secret question ( ie..until this Monday…thanx to my pal ,will never 4get that nymore :D) as I created the id some 6 or so years ago…( these r all just the cover up’s for my dumbness , that I found out after hard researches).
Moral of the blog :
Don’t give stupid questions and stupid answers ( like what vehicle u have…maruti) and behave stupidly like this . Every friend may not be as trustworthy as mine :) !!!

The Take off

Hello everyone...or anyone who happens to read this.
I am this typical average keralite girl who is now as confused and nervous as any ' first time blogger ' could be ( or even more ).So i guess i neednt repeat their words. You would be bored reading that ' i dunno what to write ' stuff once more.I have'nt gone through many blogs , except that of my friends and sayesha's ( which i really admired ),but i plan to.The idea of blogging never occured to me, until each and everyone of my friend's started it and it took my last ounce of confidence and gutts to take this small step ( you must have guessed that i am not at all inhibitive and shy :D ). It's all my friends persuasion behind this, I am a person who is greatly influenced by friends.Thanks to S,M,crusader and ash for their support ( so i guess i should be broadminded enough to share the credits, for any appreciation from anyone...I am always here and if u feel like slapping the blogger's face for wasting your time..I would surely introduce you to my friends ..:D). Frankly speaking, I welcome the criticisms more than appreciations ( mostly the friends appreciate just bcoz of the obligation...and i dont want my friends to do that...you can evaluate me as any stranger can ). I would really appreciate constructive criticisms as i am a person who believes in personal improvement till demise. I guess i am blabbering too much and you might be thinking that i am crazy ( I still cant believe i am doing this ). So I better control my motormouth. With the hope that I will blog again, stopping now

U cant change the direction of the wind...But u sure can adjust ur sails

I never thought I would write this soon again. The day before yesterday was republic day and I went to see the rakeysh om prakash mehra’s 'Rang de Basanti' with my friends…being in the theatre before the show began,I felt like being in my college meet bcoz a very good ratio of my college was there . I went for the first day first show for the first time and was amused to find the bouncy crowd . After seeing ‘Mangal Pandey’ ,I had decided not to keep high expectations of anything…not that I dint like the movie…but the hype generated was high. Aamir khan’s movie releasing after almost 3 years and that too after ‘The Lagaan’ and 'DCH'..may be I was just eccentric..i liked the movie..but wasn’t upto my expectations( just coz my expectations were too high). So I was apprehensive about ‘rang de’. But the movie just rocked . The theme of a generation awakening is shown in a fabulous way. The theme reminded me of the ‘mallu ‘ blockbuster ‘4 the people’( which would have been great with better dubbing ). But I couldn’t find anything out of place for RDB . The camera work is commendable too. At the beginning of the movie,I had the same attitude as that of the characters in the movie and by the end of the movie , I was surprised to find that my opinions too changed. The first half of the movie is humorous and the second half makes us think ( and made some of my friends cry :D )…it’s more like a fusion of ‘Dil chahta hai’ and ‘Mangal Pandey’. All other characters are given as importance as Aamir. Hats off to A R Rahman’s music..I just loved 'paathshala' and the proposalwaali calm song . So if u are planning to go for the movie…don’t hesitate… and get ready for goose bumps.

Tu,Tu Hain Kahaan???

Well..i have been tagged for quite a long time now… but I still cudnt get a perfect picture of my dream lover…I hav been tagged by crusader and he has given permission to curse him as well…so …Aveda Kadavra or I would rather use an imperius curse on u and make u ..hmmm…mayb walk on ur nose...hows tht????..srry ..bad joke.
Now let me get serious and let me tell you ki mere ‘woh’ kaise hone chaahiyee…
Talking about looks…I don’t care much…though he could do with a little height…not asking for a 6 ft man.. still…he should be at least as tall as I am and having an impressing personality would help too.
I would be happy if he doesn’t have any habits like drinking or smoking..especially smoking.( but I guess if I insist on such demands…shaayad mein kuwaari hii mar jaavoongii :( )
He should have perfect faith in me and he should be broadminded.
He should be trustworthy.. normally I trust people. But I guess if I lose it for once its gone forever.
And I want my better half to be my companion in my happiness and in my hardship( I knw its understood…neednt even mention it). Maybe the word soul mate would describe it better. There shudnt be anything obscure between us. That is a must.
I can even stand an unromantic guy. I wouldn’t ask for ‘public’ displays of affection and I wouldnt want him to give me more priority than his mom( not that he should be one of the mama’s boys).. still I want him to love his family as well as respect mine.
He should give respect to my opinions…should not be a mcp.
I expect him to wear the trousers( not literally.. well literally too :D) in the family, he shud b responsible and intelligent as two irresponsible dumb morons wont be able to lead a successful life.
I am supposed to give 8 points ..still I don’t mind him having more of them like gr8 humor sense , conversational skills, cooking abilities(he wont be needing that as I am a master chef myself…I would serve him my masterpiece daily which is boiled water),ability to behave well accrding to the situations…..and the list goes on..
Phhewww…par aise mundiyee tho filmon mein bhi nahin hotheee…:(. And the bottom line is…’adaptation is the basis of life’ my dear friends.
So that sums it up…
And now I am tagging Anand and Arun
P.S: Don’t tell me that after reading this that u feel like u have got it all :D ..then pleasee..join the queue:D