Aftermath

• Never take anyone for granted. You never know whats going through the other persons mind.



• Try not to be dependant on some one else. Learn to be self sufficient.



• Dont expect everyone in the world to be like you. Once when my roommate freaked out coz she found out someone had suicided in our next room in the past , i told her "Imagine it was you or me who died. Will we come back to trouble innocent people ???" Eventhough this calmed her down, now I know this is not the analysing method i should use in all situations. There are lots of people better than you and much more worse than you. Dont assume just because you wouldnt do something, that others wont too.



• Its impossible to figure out someone completely, or so I think. Or to put in a better way.. people change and forget to tell each other.



• Mistakes are human. Learn from them. Learn to admit. Learn to apologize. Banish excuses.



• It makes you a better and bigger person when you own up your mistakes. Running away from problems just delays it. You will have to face them again.



• Misunderstandings if present, should be cleared at the earliest.



• Your actions speak more than your words. They represent your character, your values and even your upbringing. So please think twice before you act.



• When theres a conflict between your heart and brain, hear both out properly. I feel the heart always assumes things in a way which will not cause pain to it and tries to convince you thats true. Listen to your brains logic too, maybe the brain really had a point.



• Agree to disagree. Respect each others differences and move on.



• When life puts you in an unexpected difficult situation try not to panic. Try to think clearly and calmly. You may blow things out of proportion to an irrecoverable stage when you overreact.



• Be considerate towards others feelings. Always try to think from the other persons persepective.



• Express your feelings at the right time, be it love or anger. You shouldnt wait till the threshold where your anger bursts or deathbeds to show your love.



• Know your duties and responsibilities. Being lazy is not an excuse.



• Its easy to criticize people. You will not know the feeling until you are in their shoes.



• It takes time to earn the good things in life ..trust,love or even a good word among people. While bad things happen easy and fast. Sometimes it doesnt appear fair, when something you earned through years is lost in seconds.



• In the hard race of life, theres no room for the tender hearted. You need to be tough. Even if you arent life has its own ways of making you so.



• Theres no use planning things in life. Man proposes, God disposes. So just sit back and enjoy the ride.



• Last but not the least, practice what you preach .. sigh!