The Take off

Hello everyone...or anyone who happens to read this.
I am this typical average keralite girl who is now as confused and nervous as any ' first time blogger ' could be ( or even more ).So i guess i neednt repeat their words. You would be bored reading that ' i dunno what to write ' stuff once more.I have'nt gone through many blogs , except that of my friends and sayesha's ( which i really admired ),but i plan to.The idea of blogging never occured to me, until each and everyone of my friend's started it and it took my last ounce of confidence and gutts to take this small step ( you must have guessed that i am not at all inhibitive and shy :D ). It's all my friends persuasion behind this, I am a person who is greatly influenced by friends.Thanks to S,M,crusader and ash for their support ( so i guess i should be broadminded enough to share the credits, for any appreciation from anyone...I am always here and if u feel like slapping the blogger's face for wasting your time..I would surely introduce you to my friends ..:D). Frankly speaking, I welcome the criticisms more than appreciations ( mostly the friends appreciate just bcoz of the obligation...and i dont want my friends to do that...you can evaluate me as any stranger can ). I would really appreciate constructive criticisms as i am a person who believes in personal improvement till demise. I guess i am blabbering too much and you might be thinking that i am crazy ( I still cant believe i am doing this ). So I better control my motormouth. With the hope that I will blog again, stopping now

U cant change the direction of the wind...But u sure can adjust ur sails

I never thought I would write this soon again. The day before yesterday was republic day and I went to see the rakeysh om prakash mehra’s 'Rang de Basanti' with my friends…being in the theatre before the show began,I felt like being in my college meet bcoz a very good ratio of my college was there . I went for the first day first show for the first time and was amused to find the bouncy crowd . After seeing ‘Mangal Pandey’ ,I had decided not to keep high expectations of anything…not that I dint like the movie…but the hype generated was high. Aamir khan’s movie releasing after almost 3 years and that too after ‘The Lagaan’ and 'DCH'..may be I was just eccentric..i liked the movie..but wasn’t upto my expectations( just coz my expectations were too high). So I was apprehensive about ‘rang de’. But the movie just rocked . The theme of a generation awakening is shown in a fabulous way. The theme reminded me of the ‘mallu ‘ blockbuster ‘4 the people’( which would have been great with better dubbing ). But I couldn’t find anything out of place for RDB . The camera work is commendable too. At the beginning of the movie,I had the same attitude as that of the characters in the movie and by the end of the movie , I was surprised to find that my opinions too changed. The first half of the movie is humorous and the second half makes us think ( and made some of my friends cry :D )…it’s more like a fusion of ‘Dil chahta hai’ and ‘Mangal Pandey’. All other characters are given as importance as Aamir. Hats off to A R Rahman’s music..I just loved 'paathshala' and the proposalwaali calm song . So if u are planning to go for the movie…don’t hesitate… and get ready for goose bumps.

Tu,Tu Hain Kahaan???

Well..i have been tagged for quite a long time now… but I still cudnt get a perfect picture of my dream lover…I hav been tagged by crusader and he has given permission to curse him as well…so …Aveda Kadavra or I would rather use an imperius curse on u and make u ..hmmm…mayb walk on ur nose...hows tht????..srry ..bad joke.
Now let me get serious and let me tell you ki mere ‘woh’ kaise hone chaahiyee…
Talking about looks…I don’t care much…though he could do with a little height…not asking for a 6 ft man.. still…he should be at least as tall as I am and having an impressing personality would help too.
I would be happy if he doesn’t have any habits like drinking or smoking..especially smoking.( but I guess if I insist on such demands…shaayad mein kuwaari hii mar jaavoongii :( )
He should have perfect faith in me and he should be broadminded.
He should be trustworthy.. normally I trust people. But I guess if I lose it for once its gone forever.
And I want my better half to be my companion in my happiness and in my hardship( I knw its understood…neednt even mention it). Maybe the word soul mate would describe it better. There shudnt be anything obscure between us. That is a must.
I can even stand an unromantic guy. I wouldn’t ask for ‘public’ displays of affection and I wouldnt want him to give me more priority than his mom( not that he should be one of the mama’s boys).. still I want him to love his family as well as respect mine.
He should give respect to my opinions…should not be a mcp.
I expect him to wear the trousers( not literally.. well literally too :D) in the family, he shud b responsible and intelligent as two irresponsible dumb morons wont be able to lead a successful life.
I am supposed to give 8 points ..still I don’t mind him having more of them like gr8 humor sense , conversational skills, cooking abilities(he wont be needing that as I am a master chef myself…I would serve him my masterpiece daily which is boiled water),ability to behave well accrding to the situations…..and the list goes on..
Phhewww…par aise mundiyee tho filmon mein bhi nahin hotheee…:(. And the bottom line is…’adaptation is the basis of life’ my dear friends.
So that sums it up…
And now I am tagging Anand and Arun
P.S: Don’t tell me that after reading this that u feel like u have got it all :D ..then pleasee..join the queue:D